I'm in L-O-V-E!!!!!!!!!!!

This person came into my life very recently....

All it took was one look into his eyes...

And much to my surprise... he had me

hook ... line... sinker.... and everything else!

Three weeks have passed... and we are still

INSEPERABLE!!!!

Having a baby does change everything!

Sure and Steady as She Goes...

"I keep moving forward, pressing onward, striving further, I keep ... keep on laughing, keep on living, keep on loving yeah, I keep... keep on dreaming, keep on believing, keep on achieving... I keep smiling when I come through... and I cry when I need to..."

To quote a few lines from the illustrious Ms. Jill Scott from her latest CD, Beautifully Human,

I feel these words deeply... no matter what goes on in this thing I call a life, I keep plugging at it...

I also have discovered that the people around me expect me to be the sure and steady one. Miss Dependable....always there for you no matter what the situation. I often tell people that I have been a better friend to people than they are to me... you know... that person who listens to every little tirade, not willing to sit in judgement yet being honest with all involved in the situation. I've even been told that I would make a good life coach... please!!!!

I wonder what will happen when the folks I hold together find out that I can often be conflicted in my thinking... that I can be indecisive... that I can screw things up royally??? Will they still think that Ms. B " got it like that"?

Nah... they will probably never see that side... why? because folks see things through their own filters. I call it selective sight. We see exactly what we desire to see in a person. It amazes me how fine and sexy a man can be while we are so into him... but the moment the fire diminishes... we see that lazy eye, or that crooked tooth... ha! Should I call it selective blindness?

But as I was saying... those folks who depend on Ms. B will continue to depend on Ms. B.... and guess what... I'll keep doing what I have to do....why? Because... I am Ms. Sure and Steady...and I'd NEVER let them down.....

Welcome to My House

So many folks have been talking about ..."blog this... blog that..." I thought I'd first read a few blogs and see if something like this would be beneficial to me and my endeavors to write... I do think myself to be a budding writer... going through just enough drama to make life interesting... but not enough to be tragic.

I'd like to share my thoughts... my dreams... my aspirations... my goals... my trauma... with y'all... if you desire to keep reading...

Welcome to Ms. B's House!