Listening to some ol' skool rap and r&b... I heard LL doing the song Loungin'... and the hook got me to thinking about some of the things we say...
"I love the skin I'm in..."
"I am just me... love me or hate me..."
"I love myself unconditionally..."
"If I don't love, me who will?"
I have said these things to myself... and I now have to wonder if I truly am telling the truth...
I don't hold myself to the standard of love for me that I would hold a man coming into my life...
I lie to myself sometimes (I will start my diet tomorrow)...
I cheat on myself (when I was trying to be celibate for whatever reason and I talked myself into doin it with someone I didnt love...ugh!)
I treat my body badly( lawd I could overdose on chocolate)...
I take unnecessary risks (seatbelts work to save lives)...
I hadda ask myself... Who DO you love? and are you for sure? I am learning that we do not have a healthy love for self ... one that will make us better or wiser.
I resolve to learn how to love myself enough not to lie to myself...
I resolve to learn how to take my safety more seriously...
I resolve to learn how to take care of me by eating better and exercising more...
I resolve to not cheat myself nor cheat on myself...I am God's woman... until He gives me away... I aint got nothin for these menfolks...lol
Now ask yourself... do you really love you? Are you sure?
4 comments:
hmmmm I think that I love myself but bread is my weakness do you think that I need a meeting?
you are crazy... lol
Right about now, I'm lovin some me!
I have just come in to the knowledge that God Really Loves ME!
Now I know that sounds so dumb but....its true HE LOVES ME!
Its a wonderful thing to know that God loves you! I'm glad you know!
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